How To Tell He/She Is Cheating

Here's How:

1. Acknowledge something doesn't "feel right" in your relationship and be prepared to get to the bottom of it.
2. Ask yourself the following questions:
3. - Does he/she call you less often?
4. - Does he/she make excuses to not see you when you used to be inseparable?
5. - Is he/she NOT where you are told he/she will be when you look in to it?
6. - When you call at normal times, is he/she not home?
7. - Does he/she seem to be avoiding you at school?
8. - Has he/she become very distant OR more affectionate than normal on the rare occasions you are together?
9. - Have other people noticed the strange behavior?
10. - Have other people seen him/her with somebody else?
11. - Does he/she seem distracted when he/she is with you?
12. If you answered "Yes" to 4 or more of the above questions there is a good chance that your steady is cheating.

Tips:

1. If you think you are being cheated on, confront your steady. Stay calm and non-aggressive when you do this.
2. Do NOT cheat back in an effort to make him/her jealous or to start a fight where you can confrom them.
3. If you are unhappy, if things have changed to the point where you fear you are being cheated on, ask yourself if you want to stay in the relationship.
4. Do not think of this as a contest between you and "the other person", you are not a loser because you are being cheated on.
5. If you have been cheated on think long and hard about taking him.her back if they ask - once a cheater ALMOST always a cheater!