You've probably found it difficult to start conversations or keep them going with the opposite sex. Follow these steps to conversational glory!
Difficulty: Hard
Time Required: 20 minutes
Here's How:
- Find out what s/he is good at or enjoys doing.
- Find out what the two of you have in common.
- Now here's where it gets tough! It's time to talk! When you have an opportunity to say something, make your move!
- Look him/her in the eye.
- Smile.
- Say, 'Hi.'
- Ask him/her questions about things that s/he enjoys doing.
- Ask him/her questions about the things you have in common. Mention that you have them in common!
- When you're asking these questions, listen to what s/he has to say!
- When it feels like the conversation is wrapping up, say, 'It was nice talking to you.'
Tips:
- Most people enjoy it when someone of the opposite sex approaches them. Remember that and relax!
- We don't often get an opportunity to talk about ourselves. It sure is fun when someone gives us a chance!
- If you are self-conscious about talking with the opposite sex, remember that the person you're talking to won't be even close to as critical of you as you are of yourself.