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There has been so much said in recent years about body image and the media. About how it makes girls feel to see super slim super models gracing the pages of every fashion magazine, and how guys feel when they see the Adonis like physiques of the men on TV and in print ads. The "expert" opinions have not been good - the pressure to be perfect is so great that it is destroying the self esteem of an entire generation! Is this really true? Is an entire generation being made insecure by the images of the "ideal body" that plague our TV screens, magazine pages and billboards?

The "pressure of perfection" on girls has long been a hot topic of debate in feminist circles. It is a long held feminist belief that societal images of beauty are destroying the self esteem of girls before they even reach their teens. Naomi Wolfe's 1992 book "The Beauty Myth" fronted the feminist "backlash" revolution that declared standards of beauty to be weapons used to "keep women in their place". Her book ruffled a lot of feathers and put the idea of "beauty as bondage" on the fast track of social issues. "The Beauty Myth" made a lot of people stop and think and many women declared that they would no longer accept the standards of beauty placed on them by society, not for themselves or their daughters. But at the end of the day, eating disorder rates in girls and young women increased as the size of Miss America's waist line decreased*.

Then there are the boys, so often forgotten in any discussion of this type. Ironically, at the time "The Beauty Myth" was written, boys and men were being introduced to a new concept of the "perfect male form". For decades men were measured in terms of career success, power and financial security. The feminist revolution changed all that. As women started to build killer careers of their own, males started to feel the pressure to attract women with "rugged good looks", "buff bods" and "chiselled features". Today, boys feel the same pressures to be physically attractive as girls do, even if this pressure manifests in different forms. The desire to have a great body so great that many young men are turning to anabolic steroids and growth hormones in an attempt to build the "better" body. And guess what - boys suffer from eating disorders too!

The pressure to be perfect has even made plastic surgery an issue for teens. In 1999 teen pop star Britney Spears had to fight off accusations that she had breast surgery to make her breasts larger. No body even once stopped to think that, being a teenager at the end of puberty, her breasts may have blossomed from girlish to womanly all by themselves. What is even more disturbing is that, real or not, her breasts opened a dialogue among teenagers that exposed a frightening truth. The "Great Britney Boob Debate" revealed that a large number of teenagers (19%)** would jump at the chance to have plastic surgery while still teens, and that another 45% would consider it after they had finished growing. And those jumping on the surgery band wagon were not all girls. Boys talked of "pec implants", "nose jobs" and even liposuction (to get rid of the harmless "baby fat" that so many teens have and need).

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* Since 1959 the average weight of Miss America has decreased by 25 pounds, while the average height has increased by only 3 inches. 40 years ago the average Miss America wore a size 10 dress, today the average size is 2. (SOURCE: MODE Magazine, June 2000)
** SOURCE - Joint poll by Seventeen Magazine and WFTV in Orlando, Florida. See
complete results for more information.

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