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Are You Abusive In Your Relationships? |
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By Frank Cotolo of teenwire.com
You can learn to recognize the signs of abuse in relationships. Here's some help.
Think about the following questions:
- When you and a partner talk about going to a movie and you don't agree about which movie to go to, do you get angry, maybe
start a major argument, and demand to get your way?
- If you and your partner are at a party where everyone knows your partner and no one knows you, do you become
jealous and wind up spending most of the party
feeling like you have to protect yourself?
- A student at your school tells you that he is scared of being the goalie in the soccer game at school, and he asks you
to keep it a secret. Even though you think it is kind of silly and you don't know the person that well, would you keep the
secret or start telling other people, knowing full well that this will hurt the person?
- A friend comes to you with a problem about her relationship with a family member. Do you become annoyed at having to
take time to listen to the problem and/or tell your friend that what she is feeling is stupid?
- Your friends tell you their opinions about a new student club. You don't agree with those opinions. Would you insult
the people whose opinions do not match your own?
- A lot of your friends are poking fun at a new student who has a physical handicap. Would you join them, or maybe even
lead them on in mocking this person?
- When a friend disappoints you by showing up late for an appointment that is very important to you, do you feel
outraged and rejected, so angry, even, that you would like to throw something at her?
If you answered "yes" to most of the questions above, you may be abusive in your relationships.
Next Page > Ending Abusive Behavior > Pages 1, 2, 3
Here is a list of a few organizations and groups you can get in touch with for more help and information on abusive relationships.
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