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Time for another Teen Advice FAQ feature! Next to the Age of Consent and Sex & Pregnancy the topic that you ask the most questions about
is Peer Pressure. Everybody feels the pressure at some time in their life and refusing to
give in is often easier said then done. It is very hard to say no to peers when you fear that doing so will cause them to turn
against you. On the other hand, not all peer pressure is bad and not all conformity is negative. Just how can you tell when to
give in and when to get out? We have the answers in this FAQ of your most asked questions on the topic of peer pressure.
What are "peers"?
Peers are any persons or group of people who have a close but generic relationship to one another. For instance, people of a similar
age group, people in the same circle of friends, people in the same class, people in the same counselling group, people in the same
volunteer group, people at the same workplace, people in the same family, etc. In order for a group to be considered a "peer group"
we look for one or more of these commonalities. When we speak of teen peer pressure, peers generally refers to people in the same age
group (12 - 19) who have one or more of the other relationships listed above in common. The other teens at your school, at your work
place or in your social circle are usually what we mean when we talk about peers for the purposes of peer pressure.
What is peer pressure?
Peer pressure is a social force exerted by a group or powerful/admired individual within a group. It is generally a pressure to
conform to a social norm within any given group. Not all peer pressure is bad. Social norms are a very important part of human
interaction and group dynamics. Social norms are expectations that a group has of its members usually related to behavior. Since
most social norms contribute to the smooth interaction of individuals within a society, peer pressure that promotes conforming
to these norms serves a positive purpose. When social norms become deviant or harmful or when the social norms
in a group are radically different to the generally accepted social norms of a society then we consider them to be "bad".
When most people think of peer pressure they are thinking of the pressure to conform to a deviant behavior set. Things like
drug use, underage alcohol use, promiscuous sexual conduct, violent or aggressive acting out, or criminal behavior are examples of the negative
peer pressure associated with teens.
Next Page > FAQ's on Peer Pressure Part 2 > Pages 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8
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