How can you say no to peer pressure without being made fun of?

It is not as hard as one may think to refuse to buckle in to peer pressure. Most teens could care less whether you give in or not, it is how you say no that counts. A few important things to remember when saying "no":

• Politely refuse, don't freak out, don't yell, don't call them names. A simple, "Nah, that's not really my thing!" will usually be good enough.
• Resist the urge to preech. Don't over explain your position. If your peers are doing something like drugs or alcohol, refuse on behalf of yourself and leave it at that and if it is really bothering you talk to your parents about it later.
• Don't put yourself at risk by refusing. If the situation is way out of control quietly and discreetly walk away and try to get help. For instance, if some friends start fighting with another group of teens; leave, get help and if necessary notify authorities. You can do this quietly and discreetly without being found out later saying something like, "Hey man, that was so out of hand I had to get out of there!"
• Don't make a scene. The bigger deal YOU make of your saying no, the bigger it will seem to THEM. Whenever possible shrug it off with a "no thanks" and immediately turn your attentions elsewhere.
• Remember, in the end, it really only matters what YOU think of YOU. You are the only person who has to live with your choices and the consequences of your actions.

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