- She plans to tell everyone as soon as you're officially boyfriend and girlfriend.
- There's a phantom living in her opera company's basement, and if he finds out she's being disloyal he'll kill you both.
- She doesn't think her friends will think you're worthy.
- She's embarrassed to be seen with you.
- She secretly wants to get back together with her ex and doesn't want you to blow her chances.
- You're not her only boyfriend.
And she won't give you a straight answer at all, then ask yourself: is it really fair that she's keeping secrets from you, too? As far as I'm concerned, a girl like that shouldn't be trusted with your heart.