Question: Why Am I Only Attracted Pervy Jerks?
For some reason I keep dating pervy guys who end up being total jerks. I used to think I was pretty, but lately I've been doubtful because I seem to be the only one who thinks this. What do I do to find a nice guy, and how do I know if I'm beautiful?
Answer: The problem you're suffering from is called caring-way-too-much-about-what-other-people-think-itis. It's tragically common, but with some time and a change in attitude, it can fade away.
How can you do that? Well, for starters, quit listening to other people's put-downs. You don't need their permission to be pretty. If you know you're pretty, and you carry yourself around like a pretty person would, then you are pretty.
And that's not something that random people should be able to change. Other people's judgments don't make you what you are.
Your perv problem is related to this, too. You're probably seeking out guys who are quick to tell you you're hot (and might move too fast while they're at it). Instead, hang out with people you actually like and respect. Eventually you'll find someone you want to date, but in the meantime, work on building up your confidence and just plain having fun with guys (and girls) who are worthy of your friendship.
How can you do that? Well, for starters, quit listening to other people's put-downs. You don't need their permission to be pretty. If you know you're pretty, and you carry yourself around like a pretty person would, then you are pretty.
And that's not something that random people should be able to change. Other people's judgments don't make you what you are.
Your perv problem is related to this, too. You're probably seeking out guys who are quick to tell you you're hot (and might move too fast while they're at it). Instead, hang out with people you actually like and respect. Eventually you'll find someone you want to date, but in the meantime, work on building up your confidence and just plain having fun with guys (and girls) who are worthy of your friendship.