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Information Sheet on Parental Curfews

10 Things You Need to Know About Parental Curfews

by Jessica Stevenson
for About.com

  1. Curfews are not an effort by your parents to control you or ruin your fun.
  2. Curfews encourage responsibility and teach you a respect for rules (and later laws) that you may not like or understand.
  3. There is nothing wrong or shameful about having to be home at a certain time.
  4. Adhering to your curfew helps your parents to learn to trust you and your ability to do the right thing.
  5. Having a curfew is a really good excuse to leave an uncomfortable situation (if you feel you need an excuse).
  6. If your parents expect you home at a certain time and you do not arrive at home they can get help faster if you should need it - if they don't expect you home at all they are unlikely to get help until it is already too late.
  7. Parents love you and worry when you aren't home (whether you like it or not) and your curfew allows them to get some sleep after you get home.
  8. Having a curfew does not make you lame or a loser, most teens do have curfews even if they won't admit it.
  9. Curfews imposed by your parents are not the same as the controversial city and state curfews - they are a matter of family courtesy, not public policy.
  10. As much as you will hate to hear it - parental imposed curfews are for your own good!

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