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by Jessica Stevenson
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year. However we broke up for a period of six months. We broke up because after we had sex for the first time he said he was confused about how he felt about me. He said he was feeling this " confusion " before we had sex. This sux because I was unsure the night we "did it" and he reassured me that he "loved " me. Any ways there is some history for you. So we got back together in April and now he acts like an jerk to me and then I will cry sometimes and he apologizes and feels bad, but will do it again later. I know I should break up with him but I love him and I'm scared I'll regret it... what should I do?

Signed,
~ Careblair

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