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by Mike Hardcastle
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Every Friday my guy likes to hang out with his friends. I don't know what they do but I do know that sometimes there are girls in the group. He is two years older than me and he swears that the girls are just long time members of their group of friends and not anything to worry about but I still feel uncomfortable. One of the girls is his ex and I think she still wants him. They both tell me it is over and that they are only friends but if that is true why can't I be part of the Friday night hang out sessions? Am I wrong to insist that he bring me along every once in a while? He NEVER wants to bring me, is it wrong to ask to come even a couple of times a month?

Signed,
~ Anna

She says...
"No, I do not see anything wrong with you wanting to go with him and his friends once in awhile, but a guy does need his buddy time too. We all need our space... "
READ ALL OF WHAT SHANDA HAS TO SAY

He says...
"A situation like this can only mean one thing. He's doing something he doesn't want you to see..."
READ ALL OF WHAT BRAD HAS TO SAY

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