What does it really mean?
A few months ago my boyfriend of just over a year told me he wanted to take a break. He claims he still loves me and that he wants us to be together some day but says that right now he needs some space. We still hang out and when we do its as if nothing has changed and this makes it hard for me to open up to other guys. It feels like Id be cheating if I made a date with somebody else. So now its like Im just waiting for him to come around and tell me that hes ready to recommit. Is he just trying to let me down easy? Am I crazy thinking well ever get back together for real? How long should I hold out for him? Just what does it mean to take a break anyway?
I hate it when guys play this card. It is just cowardly. Take it from me, a former teenaged guy, if I want to take a break I dont want to be with you. I may still like you. I may still be attracted to you. What I dont want is to be your boyfriend and that means we are broken up
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This is a classic case of a person having their cake and eating it to, and youre spoon-feeding the cake (a.k.a., you) to him! Give ME a break!! No matter what he calls it, right now the two of you are not a couple
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