I think they can if they want to, I mean whats the big deal? Its not like you want to date everybody you meet. Some guys are just too goofy to want to have as more than a friend.
- Laura, 16
Any girl who has a guy as a good friend is either a tease or living in denial. Guys may not always make a move on their girl friends but they wouldnt ever turn the girl down if she made a move on them.
- Steven, 18
Its just wrong. Guys and girls cant relate to each other, they live such different lives. Guys are all about sports and tricks and keeping it real with their boys. Girls are gossips and backstabbers. I can see why a girl may want to be friends with guys because girls are vicious to each other but guys dont need girls as their friends. If a girl is in your life shes either a relative or your girlfriend, theres no need for them anywhere else.
- Kai, 17
Guys are dogs. They just want one thing from a girl and its not good companionship. I have enough trouble fighting off guys who want to date me, who needs to deal with guys pretending to be your friend just to get to you?
- Alixandra, 15
Everybody makes this such an issue but its not. Some guys can be your friend and some cant, its that simple. People are individuals and its not fair to group all guys together or all girls together as being one way. Friends come in all shapes, sizes, ages, colors AND genders.
- Kirsten, 17
Only really weak guys cant be friends with girls. Girls are cool and make awesome friends.
- Tom, 15
Honestly, Im torn on this. Id like to say that yes guys and girls can be just friends but every boyfriend Ive ever had started out as just a friend and then became something more. Im not sure anymore that acting like just a friend isnt just another move that guys use to get a girl.
- Lisle, 19
The just friends move is gold! Works every time. Of course guys and girls CAN be just friends but why would any guy want that? If Im spending time with a girl its because I like her as more than a friend. I will say this though, there are some girls I wanted to get with at first but then decided theyd be cool as a friend instead but those friendships never last long.
- Aaron, 16
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