- He's using you.
- He doesn't respect you.
- None of this is leading to what you really want from him - love, or even a relationship. All the making out in the world won't make him want to be your boyfriend.
- It might feel good to hook up with him, but the more you do it, the more heartbreak you'll feel in the long run.
- The longer you fool around with him, the less available you're making yourself to guys who might actually like and respect you.
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