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"1 Hour Before He Broke Up, He Told Me He Loved Me"

Share Your Story: My First Breakup

From jenny

How Long Had You Been Dating Before the Breakup?

1 month

Who Broke Up with Whom?

he broke up with me

How Did the Breakup Go Down?

1 hour before he broke up with me, he texted me and told me he loved me. Then as I was lying in bed about to fall asleep, he said, "we're not going to work out." I texted back and said "what do u mean?" He said that our relationship just wasn't strong enuff. That he felt like a different person around me and couldn't be himself. He also said that I had way more "class" then him... what does that even mean? I tried to reason with him but he wouldn't budge. So the next day I gave one of his friends a shirt that he had given me so that they could give it to him and they laughed at me and said rude things...

How Did You Get Over the Breakup?

This was just a few days ago and I guess that I'm trying to vent but I'm not totally over him. I'm really trying tho. Every time I see him or my friends see him I will look the other way and pretend not to notice. I try and act normal and act like it doesn't hurt and even though it has only been a few days the pain is already fading... so I guess just by letting him know that what he did to me didn't hurt me (as far as he knows it didn't) I myself felt better. I know that there are other guys in the world and I am just gonna try and focus on that. I mean I know that I can find someone better.

Lessons Learned

  • Well when we dated he asked me to send him a pic of me... he wanted it nude but I said no but I did send him some of me in my bra and panties... and now he has showed his friends and told them things and its soooo embarrassing. I will definitely never trust him or anyone like him again.

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