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Share Your Story: My First Breakup

From Angel_8

How Long Had You Been Dating Before the Breakup?

1 yr and 5 months

Who Broke Up with Whom?

I broke up with him

How Did the Breakup Go Down?

It started off with him wanting to spend less time because he wanted to spend time with his friends too. I didn't mind. But he started treating me bad...taking me for granted. The fighting became worse. We decided on taking a break but still stay faithful to one another! Uhm guess not!!! 2 days after the decision and him telling me he would never cheat on me...well, he did! With a friend of mine. 2 months later he cheated on me again! I left him for good! He saw me with another guy and now he desperately wants me back!!

How Did You Get Over the Breakup?

Not over. But I can't take him back! Therz no way I can ever trust him again. We are still very close. I love him loadz but that's it! The best way to get over it is by erasing everything that reminds you of him. When he pops up in your mind, think of something bigger. Always stay busy. Never be alone!! Don't try and move on with another person. It will makes things even worse.

Lessons Learned

  • Don't fall too quick
  • Don't trust too much
  • Don't give everything you have to one person
  • Don't depend on the fact that he or she will never hurt you
  • But always have hope and believe that true love will find you
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