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"He Told Me He Cheated on Me With My Cousin"

Share Your Story: My First Breakup

From jora butler

How Long Had You Been Dating Before the Breakup?

2 months

Who Broke Up with Whom?

I broke up with him

How Did the Breakup Go Down?

I was at my cousin's house and I was using her phone to text him. Then I went through her messages and I seen his name..and then I thought to myself...no this isn't him. So I went to her contacts and it really was him...and what I read in the message was..."I wanna lay u down...make ur body feel good...baby they way u was screaming last night is making me want more...I had fun with u last night baby...u should come over tonight...I love you..." I was mad and I called him and asked, and he told me baby I'm sorry but I cheated on you with your cousin...but I do love u baby I do, I don't want her, I want you...and I said it's over...

How Did You Get Over the Breakup?

well...I cried for 3 days...it was hard cause I just fell in love...but then we worked it out so now we are just friends...but I want to be with him but I'm scared to get my feelings hurt again because they are friends...I don't talk to my cousin because this would be the 4th time she did this to me...and I cried day all day of them 3 days

Lessons Learned

  • not to fall in love so fast...

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