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"He Wasn't Sure if I was Cheating"

Share Your Story: My First Breakup

From , former About.com Guide

How Long Had You Been Dating Before the Breakup?

3 and a 1/2 months

Who Broke Up with Whom?

He broke up with me

How Did the Breakup Go Down?

His friends kept telling him I was cheating and he wasn't sure cuz it was a long distance relationship. He asked me if I was and I said no I would never cheat on you I promise (I wasn't) and he believed me, but his friends kept telling him I was cheating. He called me and said it was over, and I was crying my eyes out and wanted him back. It's been a few months since we talked but last night we texted and I really want him back again, and I have been depressed since we broke up.

How Did You Get Over the Breakup?

I haven't. I still want him back cuz he made my world go around, but it's stopped and I'm still upset about it. I always think of him and wish we never broke up. He says he hates me now but I don't think he does cuz he talks to me still.

Lessons Learned

  • Don't fall too hard for someone who won't take you back.

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