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"I Went Through His Phone"

Share Your Story: My First Breakup

From HeartBarelyTorn

How Long Had You Been Dating Before the Breakup?

For about 9 Months

Who Broke Up with Whom?

I broke up with him

How Did the Breakup Go Down?

I went through his phone and saw that one of his contacts had "My Girl" and it wasn't my number. So I went through his messages and saw that he was saying I love you to her and having phone s**. I was so upset so when I talked to my cousin about it he over heard and said it was just a close friend. So I broke up with him.

How Did You Get Over the Breakup?

I never did. I still am in love with him. Even though it sounds stupid I still want to be with him. I just ask the question Why? Why would he cheat on me knowing how I felt about him. It just hurts really bad to know that someone that I trusted with all my heart let me down and I don't think that I will ever get over it. Just really what I want him to do is say sorry. Even if he doesn't mean it.

Lessons Learned

  • Never give someone your heart when they won't give it back
  • Don't go back to them if they cheated once cause chances are, they'll do it again.
  • Just because they say they love you doesn't mean they mean it
  • Boys/Girls will say anything to you just to get what they want
  • Never EVER trust anyone with your heart cause chances are you'll never see it again

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