How Long Had You Been Dating Before the Breakup?
We went on for like 1 year and 2 months
Who Broke Up with Whom?
I broke up with her
How Did the Breakup Go Down?
She was my first girlfriend, and the first few months went great! We would hang out a lot, go out places, kiss, and all that first stage dating. Then she started with some lies that I fell for because I had trust in her. (Facts: her dad died when she was young, she lives with her real mom.) First lie: she told me she was her step mom. 2nd lie: she told me her real mom died while giving birth. 3rd lie: she told me her step mom would sell her to have sex with other people when she was 6 and when her dad died. 4th lie: she got pregnant before. 5th lie: she had HIV/AIDS.
So me being a good boyfriend, feeling sorry for her would try to support her like, "it's ok, I know it's hard for you and I'll still think of you the same way and love you." A few month later, as time passed on, I would start getting the feeling she was cheating with some guy she always hung around with. She would rather hang out with her friends than with me and would only call to ask me for rides, and I found out that all of those things were lies when it came up in a conversation with her mom. So that day I just decided to end it. So I broke up.
How Did You Get Over the Breakup?
All night she was calling me asking to forgive her and to start dating again. Her mom also called so many times... next day at school the counselors called me out, all her friends tried to make me go back with her. This went on for a week, till I was forced to go back out with her. It went all great and everything until she got me in trouble with my mom. She would have secret talks thru txt with her. She tried to break my relationship of me and my best friend by telling her lies about him. She would tell her when I would ditch classes, and told her I did x once. So I decided to end the relationship. (This was the recent breakup.) So I've avoided all apologies she has given me and, now, she is telling everyone at school that supposedly I got her pregnant, and that my best friend punched her in the stomach. And that she might not have the baby because of that. thx for reading guys.
Lessons Learned
- I don't know exactly what I learned form this. Maybe someone could simplify it for me...