What Age were You?
16
What Kind of Kiss was It?
A quick peck on the lips
Who and Where?
Funny Story...my first 'kiss' happened 2 days after I met this guy. I was at a school dance having fun with my girlfriends, and then this guy starts dancing with me. This was also my first time dancing with a guy. Long story short, he REALLY likes me. He started texting me after that. Then we both hung out at the mall...and he was holding my hand, which I was not used to AT ALL but thought was sweet (and kinda scary because never did I think a guy would be holding MY hand..lol) So he is a few months younger than me...but is turning 16 in about a week...and he moved here from a different country, so he's fairly new.
How Did it Happen?
Anyways, we were talking for a while...just walking around having fun. We went into different stores and he would say what would look pretty on me. He bought me a bracelet, and then we went upstairs. And what did we come across? The photo booth, of course! Oh my God...I was freaking out a little on the inside xD He wanted to take some cute pictures, so in we went! Aha...and he's a good foot taller than me...and he's like...comeeeeonnnnnn! And I was like, what the heck! Why not. So he went in...and I was like, what do I do with my stuff!? So I put my bags down, then went into that booth. Let me tell you, those things are SMALL!! And he was just sitting on the seat and I was like...WHAT DO I DO! Aha..not my brightest moment. But he knew what he was doing. So, I ended up sitting on his lap, and he inserted the coins. Then we just smiled...and his arm was around me...and then when the pictures were done, I was getting up to get out of there...because I was a bit uncomfortable in that tiny space where people could probably see us through the flimsy curtain! He gingerly grabbed me by the waist and said to stay for a minute. I knew what he was doing...oh boy, did I know! I tried to play it off...be all like, "but the pictures are done...we can go now!":$ But no...he was smiling and I was freaking OUT...he said that he wanted to kiss me. I was like OMGOMGOMGOMGOMG full out panic mode...it was definitely awkward, but he was still sitting down and I was standing up, so there was about a foot that I would have to lean down. I finally gave in, and I said just a little kiss!! I stared at him for a good 5 seconds because I wasn't sure what he expected me to do...but as soon as I moved just about an inch forward, he tilted his head up, and kissed me...it was about a second...then I pulled away.:P I was not ready for anything else...God forbid, tongue! Yea, I was terrified of that concept, plus as soon as I kissed him, I'm not really sure what I felt. I mean, I was kind of stunned? I'm sure my face was bright red...he kept saying how much I was blushing the whole time at the mall...lol ugh...and then afterward, when he was leaving, he's all like smiling...so what was the part you are going to most remember about our date? Okay...first off...I wasn't even aware we were on a date...lol So now in the span of 2 days, I had my first dance (the really really close kind omg! lol) with a guy, my first kiss, AND my first date!?!?!? I'll never forget it, though xD!
Advice
- If the guy asks how the kiss was, don't say it was good, or you don't know...I seriously did not know...lol so that's what I said...I also said that I had nothing to compare it to...I think he was expecting me to say it was fantastic or something...:P I hope I didn't wound his ego ;D
- Just try to not freak out (like I did!)
- Just try not to overthink...I mean, it's just a kiss, right? In 20 years you will probably be laughing about it...xD
- I'm not sure if I would do it all over again...I think that every experience you have in life serves a purpose and teaches you something valuable for the future. :D