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First Kiss Against the Wall

Share Your Story: My First Kiss

By Toxic_Rawr

What Age were You?


What Kind of Kiss was It?

Forehead, Made out

Who and Where?

A totally yummy cutey I'd had/have a crush on since the beginning of the year, at my new school. Behind the movie theater/mall.

How Did it Happen?

So it was like 13 days before my 14th birthday, he was already 14. And so far it was my first real relationship. We'd been going out for about 2 1/2 days, it was Sunday and he'd asked me out right before the school dance which he couldn't go to because he was suspended. That was the first time I'd ever talked to him. We decided to go to a movie, even though we wanted to go on the night of the dance. But it was after the movie, and we'd decided not to call our parents right away. He actually had me up against a wall, and we were talking and I started shaking because he was really close to me and I REALLY like him. So he noticed this and said "Close your eyes and I'll make it stop." But I said "No.." because I was to afraid I'd screw up since he'd had plenty of kisses and girlfriends before me, and he just kissed my forehead which made me stop shaking a little, and then what I would consider a normal quick first kiss, it was over after about 10 seconds. I still wanted more but I didn't want to seem to quick to get into this relationship. His hands were down on my waist and I my heart was pounding, he kept his face really close to mine and we just looked into each other's eyes, then he kissed me again. This time more passionately, we just full blown made out, and I was pretty good in his words, I was following his lead and then his tongue went into my mouth and I was scared of having a heart attack I was so shocked by this, I gently nibbled on his lip (which also was in my mouth). We stopped not long after and he told me to try using a little tongue, but I quietly said "No," once again. We called our parents and started making out again, and again, before he had to leave, with a quick goodbye kiss. Then that was the last time I was him before we broke up exactly a week later, because he said "I want to get to know you better, then try again" but I'm not stupid and everyone else knows he broke up with me for someone else at our school.


  • I would have agreed to some of the things he suggested.
  • Don't worry about screwing up, everything will come naturally if your really worried watch romance movies with a lot of kissing.
  • Just think about what's going on try to focus
  • Don't let him do anything you don't want to happen.
  • If you want it, lead.
  • Go out with someone you know, no matter how much you like them, when they ask you out say "I'd like to get to know you better"
  • I would go back in time and actually say I love you, say it as soon as you think its right.
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