What Age were You?
14
What Kind of Kiss was It?
Gentle Lip-Lock
Who and Where?
A Guy From my School Who I Really Liked, Behind the Building of Our School
How Did it Happen?
We were inside our school building at first, and he asked me if I wanted to go outside with him (we had a free hour at that time, so it was okay to outdoors). So we stepped out - at this point, we were at the front of the building, and we walked all the way around to the back. On the way over there, he pointed to the Christmas lights that were hung on a huge wreath and said, "They look like a net of Christmas lights!" I laughed and said they kinda did.
We eventually got over to the back of the building, and - looking at an overhead view - we were sort of the far left side. The ground was a little wet from raining hard that day, and it was still kinda cloudy. We started talking about some random things, like always had - I had developed quite a nice friendship with this guy, and he had loved me ever since were about eight or nine. After a few minutes of talking, he paused, looked at me for about two seconds, then swooped down and kissed me!
The kiss lasted about five to seven seconds, but to me, it seemed more like ten. All the while, I didn't put my hand around his neck or anything. I just stood there, so caught up in the moment. I was thinking, "Oh, my gosh! I can't believe he's finally kissing me!" and also, "Oh, crap! Why am I not putting my hand around his neck?!" at the same exact time. Overall, the kiss was amazing!
After pulling away, he asked me, "How does that feel?" All I could say was, "Wow!" I was at a loss for words, and I was shaking a little (I did that every time he said or did something that tripped me out), though I was surprised that I could control myself. I definitely wasn't planning on telling my mom about this - I knew she'd probably flip her lid! And I certainly didn't want to tell my dad anytime soon. He'd really call me out for it.
We talked for a little bit more. Drew's little brother, Kade, came back there a few times, his shirt, and also the corners of his mouth, stained with pizza sauce from his lunch. I was a little annoyed because I wanted Drew and I to have our privacy. Kade left, and then Drew told me he had to to his next class. Just he left, he leaned over and kissed me again. This time, I found a way to actually kiss back - by putting a little bit more passion into it, like he was doing. That kiss was a little shorter, but it felt so good! After he pulled away that time, he said, "Don't shake!" I laughed and told him, "I won't!" Though, I could feel my body starting up again.
Advice
- Always angle your head so you don't crunch noses, but not too much, as this will have your lips not totally locked. This is also important if you don't want to have one or both of your noses broken or bloody.
- Never kiss someone when you or they are sick. Obvious side effect there.
- Always brush up (and if possible, have breath spray or a mint)! Bad breath isn't good for kissing.
- Make it private. You never want an audience if you're kissing someone. That's what your wedding is for.
- If you're a girl, have chap stick in your pocket and already applied to your lips. You want to look attractive, right?