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First Kiss on a Cold Pier

Share Your Story: My First Kiss

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What Age were You?


What Kind of Kiss was It?

French Kiss

Who and Where?

On the pier with a guy that I wasn't sure if I liked.

How Did it Happen?

I was always kind of nervous because some of my friends have been kissing since they were 12 and some have even had sex. It's not like I'm a total loser. I had even had boyfriends before! I just never found anyone that I really wanted to kiss. Lately I've been meeting a lot of guys that I would have happily hooked up with but the thing is that I was nervous since I had never done it before. I didn't want anyone to know that I was a SOPHOMORE that had never been kissed. I thought it was embarrassing. So I met this guy named Jack through my best friend's boyfriend. He lived out of state so I didn't have to worry that he would spread the word that I was a terrible kisser or anything. So we met up and hung out at the beach and walked around for a while. I will admit it was a little bit awkward, but I was starting to realize that I actually did like him. We walked out onto the pier and I got really cold so he let me wear his jacket and he held my hand while we were walking. At some point or another we stopped walking and turned to face each other. I remember talking nervously but I'm sure I was just babbling about nothing. When I shut up, I smiled and bit my lip a little and locked eyes with him. He was getting closer and closer so finally I just pushed all my nerves out and closed my eyes and closed the distance. Before I knew it he was opening up his mouth and I could feel his tongue. I followed some advice my friend gave me and tried spelling out the alphabet with my tongue but I really didn't need to. I just followed what he was doing. He was really experienced. We would kiss and our tongues would meet and I just followed his lead on when to change the position of my head and stuff. My hands started on his arms and then moved up and down his back. I pulled away because I felt like we were being watched. I literally felt dizzy and dazed when we pulled apart. Later we went to the beach and started making out again. This time lasted longer but when we stopped we smoothly transitioned into a hug and I felt perfect wrapped around him.


  • Please, don't feel pressured to kiss anyone. This sounds so cliched but everyone feels ready at different times. It doesn't matter how old you are.
  • You might just want to get your first kiss over with, but wait.Do you really want to tell your friends/kids that your first kiss was with some random guy whose name you barely remember?
  • I'm sorry if I gave a lot of detail but I read a lot of these before my first kiss and most of them said "It will feel natural/It will just come to you/ Follow your heart..."
  • I know you might feel like you're the last to kiss someone, but the truth is a lot of people keep it a secret
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