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First Kiss on a Wheelchair Ramp

Share Your Story: My First Kiss

By Anonymous

What Age were You?

14

What Kind of Kiss was It?

Just 2 simple pecks.

Who and Where?

My "girlfriend" (We had been going out for like a week) and it was a half hour after school on the wheelchair ramp in shady area.

How Did it Happen?

We were both cuddling, and she was rubbing my arm while she was trying to get onto MSN on her cell phone paying no attention to me, and I said weakly "Can I have a kiss?" and she turned over and BAM. We kissed, it was a 3 second peck. She went right back to her phone and I was looking at the skies, it was so great. Anyways, I had to go home cause I was grounded so before I left, she pulled on my shirt (cause I was like 6 feet 1 inch and she was only 5 foot something.) and we pecked again and then I walked home never looking back. We broke up 3 days later. As it turns out, she was using me, and she never gave 2 craps about me and she dated me on a dare. I was so mad, and btw, I was a born loser, I had no friends and I was fat, and I still don't have friends and I'm constantly picked on, and that's why I don't talk to anyone and no one talks to me. I'm now 17 and I've never had another girlfriend or a kiss cause this event was so tramautizing and I'm just too shy, and it still kills me to this day. She and I are now "friends" and she regrets doing this to me, but deep down, there's a part that'll never forgive her cause she still likes to play with my heart, and I'm just letting her do it. What I'm trying to say, is you shouldn't miss out like I did. I'm missing out on whatit's supposed to be like to be a teenager. Start asking women out when you are 13. Have your first kiss when you are a teenager! Don't be so shy. Don't make the mistake I did. I don't wanna have to tell my kids that my first "real" kiss was when I was 20 or something like that, and I know you don't either.

Advice

  • If you suspect anything at all, confront her about it. It will save a lot of time and pain, trust me.
  • If she smokes alot of pot and you don't, don't ever bother.
  • If she's younger than you and she claims she's into older guys, WALK AWAY ASAP.
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