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"At the End of the Day, There He Was in My Head"

Share Your Story: My First Love

From Garcianathaoie

Who Was It With?

My friend's older brother

When Did You Realize It was Love?

I realized it was love when all I could do was think of him

What Did It Feel Like?

Love love love... What can I say?

As a couple you suffer together, laugh together, time flies by... It's amazing how a person can make you feel!

You can't never get enough!

What Happened Next?

I saw him and we started talking, he was kinda drunk and I was tipsy. The next week I received a call from him asking if I wanted to hang out. I couldn't, but he came over and I made him a CD. The next day we hung out for the first time, it was awkward and we didn't talk much but we didn't stop hanging out. Somehow I started to get feelings for him, and I told his sister, and she told me he had feelings for me too. One day he told me how he felt and we started talking... We would take long walks at the park, go to Sonic and get our favorite drinks. Then he asked me out, gave me a red rose and gave me a card...I said yes and we begun our relationship! It was great, I loved to spend time with him, but we started to have jealously problems

and we started an off-and-on relationship. I lost a lot of friendships over him and I made a lot of stupid mistakes. But I didn't care... I loved him and I wanted him to be with me for the rest of my life. I didn't let my mom separate us... I did him wrong and I doubted if what I felt was love for what I have done to him, but at the end of the day there he was in my head. We are now separated and done for good. I met another person and my feelings for this new person are different but I like it.

Lessons Learned

  • Enjoy the moment, because not everything lasts forever.

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