Who Was It With?
A guy.
When Did You Realize It was Love?
When I first saw him. We clicked.
What Did It Feel Like?
It was the most amazing thing, the way we looked at each other, we knew we loved each other.
What Happened Next?
We were walking around a neighborhood after a Halloween party. He was the new guy that had just moved here from Florida, I had never really talked to him, and he was so shy but he was friends with all the popular guys. We were standing on my friend's porch and I said, "Why are you so shy? You have no reason to be, you're friends with all the guys and you're cute." He just kinda smiled and said, "OK." Well, then he ended up carrying me, & I was my complete self around him. The third day after Halloween he asked me out, & of course I said yes. But we never really acted like a couple. He broke up with me & then we went back out again, then some of my guy friends talked me into breaking up with him because he treated me like crap. In the 6 hours we were broken up I made out with another guy and realized I didn't want anyone other than him, so we went back out. I never told him about making out with that guy, but he found out and dumped me. It was horrible, I didn't think it could get any worse. He hated me completely, he said he couldn't get his heart broken again. After two months of him hating me, I had a new boyfriend and he was so sweet, but I knew he could never compare to what me & my ex had. One night I got a phone call, it was him, our prom was coming up and he asked me. I was in shock. I started crying, because I was in love with him & he didn't hate me. We ended up dating again. I worried that he was going to dump me right after prom, but he swore he wouldn't, and I believed him. Then prom came - it was amazing, the best night of my life. But 3 days after I got a text & he dumped me out of nowhere. I had heard rumors about him and another girl, who was someone who hadn't done the best things and everyone knew about it, but he always said "no Madi, you know I'm in love with you." I was devastated I cried and I still do. He avoids seeing me, everyone thinks it's because he will change his mind, but idk.
Lessons Learned
- be careful
- don't fall in love with someone who doesn't deserve it
- don't let him treat you bad
- you deserve the best